#44: Kate Ortega (SO/SX 7w8 793) - "Fun Negativity" vs Real Negativity, Entitled Spoiled Brattiness, the Dream of Being a Kept Woman
#44: Kate Ortega (SO/SX 7w8 793) - "Fun Negativity" vs Real Negativity, Entitled Spoiled Brattiness, the Dream of Being a Kept WomanDescription
In this candid Enneagram interview, Kate (SO/SX 7w8 793) discusses her identity as an "entitled brat," her allergy to drudgery and limitation, and her dream (since she was young) of being a "kept woman." She also shares how therapy helped her distinguish between "fun negative" (entertainment) and "real negative" (trauma), allowing her to process difficult emotions rather than "bouncing" away from them. Enjoy.
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Timestamps
00:00 - Intro
03:59 - Outlook on what Kate does in life, not tracking self-preservation linearly
07:03 - Frustration of 7, not ‘hippy dippy’
13:22 - “I live in the land of Kate”, Type 7 relationship to freedom, theater of negativity masks "real" negativity
20:34 - No super-ego; fighting reality
22:13 - Friendship as a social 7, having fun and dealing with shit, reciprocity
28:01 - Being a ‘brat’, wanting to be a ‘kept woman’, freedom from ‘have-to’s’
33:29 - SP blind 7: no shame in others caring for them
37:31 - Being assertive, getting ‘in trouble’ as a framework
42:10 - Being loved more than loving
45:23 - Harry Potter addiction, proxy for SP grounding
48:31 - Therapy, letting in past hurts, not bouncing out of pain
55:21 - Seeing memories in new light, somatic connections
1:09:40 - Outro
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CREDITS
Interview by Josh Lavine
Edited by Kristen Oberly
Music by Coma-Media from Pixabay
Coma-Media: https://pixabay.com/users/coma-media-24399569/
Pixabay: https://pixabay.com/
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